Trusting GodJune 19, 20263 min read

How to Trust God When You Are Afraid

Fear and faith are often treated as opposites. If you have ever prayed with your heart pounding, you know it is not that simple.

By Carla Bosteder, M.Ed.

How to Trust God When You Are Afraid

Fear and faith are often treated as opposites, as if a frightened person must be failing at trust. If you have ever prayed with your heart pounding, you know it is not that simple. You can believe in God and still be afraid.

The people closest to Jesus were not immune to fear. They walked with Him and watched His miracles, and still found themselves terrified when the situation turned. Their story is honest about how fear and faith can live side by side.

A storm and a sleeping Savior

One evening the disciples were crossing a lake when a fierce storm rose up. Water was filling the boat, and these were experienced fishermen who knew real danger when they saw it. Jesus, meanwhile, was asleep.

They woke Him in a panic. He calmed the storm with a word, then asked them, "Why are you afraid? Do you still have no faith?" (Mark 4:40, NASB 2020). The question was gentle, but it pointed to something they had forgotten in their fear.

They had forgotten who was in the boat with them. Their fear was not unreasonable given the storm. What they had lost sight of was that the One who made the sea was present and near, even while He seemed unbothered.

Trusting God when you are afraid does not mean the fear disappears. It means remembering who is in the boat. The storm may be real, the danger may be real, and God's nearness is also real at the same time.

It helps to notice that Jesus did not scold them for waking Him. He answered the fear by acting, and then He gently named what they had overlooked. He met their panic with presence before He addressed their faith.

So if you are afraid today, you do not have to perform a calm you do not feel. You can bring the fear to God exactly as the disciples did, with honesty and urgency. He is not offended by a frightened prayer.

It also helps to keep the fear and the prayer in the same breath. You do not have to wait until you feel brave to speak to God. The disciples cried out while still afraid, and that cry was a kind of faith too.

Faith is not the absence of fear. It is turning toward God in the middle of it, remembering that He is in the boat. The storm around you may not quiet immediately, but you are not alone in it, and the One beside you is not afraid. That is where trust begins, even with a pounding heart.

More Resources

These passages hold fear and faith together, pointing to the God who is near in the storm.

  • Mark 4:38-40 - Jesus present in the boat as the disciples face the storm afraid.
  • Isaiah 41:10 - Do not fear, for God is with you and will strengthen you.
  • Psalm 56:3 - A simple prayer to trust in God when afraid.
  • Psalm 46:1-2 - God as a refuge and present help, so we need not fear.
  • Deuteronomy 31:8 - The Lord going before you and never leaving you.
  • 2 Timothy 1:7 - A spirit of power and love rather than fear.

I created Simplify to Glorify for women of faith who are walking through hard seasons and need more than just encouragement — they need something to hold onto. I hold an M.Ed. in Curriculum Development, and I design every resource with both purpose and compassion. Honest. Grace-filled. Right where you are.— Carla Bosteder, M.Ed.